Jack made me this card for Mother's Day.
Look what got top billing.
Bittersweet, huh?
After the "awww" factor wore off, it sent my head spinning. Why is that the first line? Is that what came to mind first, when he was writing? Is that what matters most to him? Is it a relief to him? Does that signify he realizes the challenges of managing his diabetes? Should I be concerned?
We aim to make diabetes just one aspect of his life. He has brown hair, brown eyes, one brother, one sister, two cats, one dog and tons of friends. He swims, ice skates, plays tennis, plays basketball, and rides his bike and scooter all the time. He's an avid reader and video game whiz. He will spend hours drawing or building with Legos. He wants to see every new kids' movie that hits the theaters and can quote lines from his favorite flicks. He collects acorns and tries to save insects he suspects have been injured, creating infirmaries out of shoe boxes. He's a wild and crazy boy, who loves to jump cannonball-style into the pool, fight with silly string and water balloons, and chase his siblings in an endless game of tag. He has a sophisticated sense of humor, but enjoys a good knock-knock joke. He can figure out anything electronic or mechanical with little or no help. He would win a contest if ever there was one for arm farting. Oh, and he has type 1 diabetes. He has a full, well-rounded life, but maybe we need to downplay D more?
Or, maybe I'm overanalyzing?
This is what diabetes does to me. It makes me question sweet, innocent words.
Sigh...
Nonetheless, I loved the card, and my little man got many thanks, a big hug and lots of kisses in return for his wonderful card. His brother and sister, my two other lovies, received thanks, hugs and kisses for their fabulous, creative cards, too.
I don't know about other moms, but to me, the best presents are those that come from my kids' hearts...even if they send my mind into Freudian overdrive.
Happy Mother's Day!
After the "awww" factor wore off, it sent my head spinning. Why is that the first line? Is that what came to mind first, when he was writing? Is that what matters most to him? Is it a relief to him? Does that signify he realizes the challenges of managing his diabetes? Should I be concerned?
We aim to make diabetes just one aspect of his life. He has brown hair, brown eyes, one brother, one sister, two cats, one dog and tons of friends. He swims, ice skates, plays tennis, plays basketball, and rides his bike and scooter all the time. He's an avid reader and video game whiz. He will spend hours drawing or building with Legos. He wants to see every new kids' movie that hits the theaters and can quote lines from his favorite flicks. He collects acorns and tries to save insects he suspects have been injured, creating infirmaries out of shoe boxes. He's a wild and crazy boy, who loves to jump cannonball-style into the pool, fight with silly string and water balloons, and chase his siblings in an endless game of tag. He has a sophisticated sense of humor, but enjoys a good knock-knock joke. He can figure out anything electronic or mechanical with little or no help. He would win a contest if ever there was one for arm farting. Oh, and he has type 1 diabetes. He has a full, well-rounded life, but maybe we need to downplay D more?
Or, maybe I'm overanalyzing?
This is what diabetes does to me. It makes me question sweet, innocent words.
Sigh...
Nonetheless, I loved the card, and my little man got many thanks, a big hug and lots of kisses in return for his wonderful card. His brother and sister, my two other lovies, received thanks, hugs and kisses for their fabulous, creative cards, too.
I don't know about other moms, but to me, the best presents are those that come from my kids' hearts...even if they send my mind into Freudian overdrive.
Happy Mother's Day!
11 comments:
I just love your card! Plain and simple. He loves that he can count on you, and you DO take care of him, and keep him healthy.
I hope you have an awesome Mother's Day!! Obviously, YOU ROCK!!! : ) Hugs!!
You are doing a great job balancing every thing that is in Jack's life, never doubt that!! I mean look at that kid...he is great and can draw quiet well!!
I think the one thing that we all seem to over look is that although D is only one aspect of our children's lives, D has a huge impact and affect on many other aspect in their lives. Therefore when Jack plays tennis or swims or plays with lego's for hours on end D is also there.
So ya it is going to get first billing in a wonderful Mother's Day card! because if you did not do such a great job with taking care of Jack and type 1 diabetes Jack would not be able to enjoy all the wonders in his world!!
Happy Mother's day!!
Caleb often does the same. For Caleb, I think he's just lazy. :) We have the "special plate" at dinner and you're supposed to say something you appreciate about the person with the special plate. It's often the first thing that pops out of Caleb's mouth when I have it, he also always says, "I appreciate you Colin because you play with me." <---- equally boring.
It's in our and their faces all the time. I think it's the most obvious thing, but not the most important - not by a long shot.
Happy mother's day!
Such a sweet card. No need to over analyze, he is obviously a kid first and he loves you tons. Happy Mother's Day!!
Lorraine said it. Dont over analyze enjoy your day!!! Xoxo
What a beautiful card! I can see how it's hard to get past that first sentence...that would have tugged at my heart too, but I think it's sweet that he appreciates all that you do for him and for his diabetes. You are a great d-mama and he is blessed to have you :)
Happy Mothers Day!
OMG...LOVE The CARD!!!! And, he clearly is every bit a normal, fun-loving, crazy...armpit farting boy. Sounds a lot like Joe...and you wanna know what? Joe recently filled out a questionaire for a school project.
One questions was: What makes you special?
His answer: 1) I am good at hockey.
2) I have diabetes.
I think they just take it for what it is. It does set them apart, but they are OK with it...for the most part...except when "D" isn't playing nice.
Love you AND Happy Mother's Day Heidi!!! xoxo
What a super sweet card! Love it! What a great boy that he recognizes ALL that you do for him and was able to express that to you. Happy Mother's Day!
Very sweet!
Even though we do our best to make D the 'smallest' thing about them, I think they know (whether consciously or unconsciously) that it takes a lot from us to manage it with and/or for them. I think it's a great testament to your awesome pancreas-ness that he's aware of it and thankful for it.
It sounds like you have an AMAZING little guy there! Happy Mother's Day!!
Heidi, did you read my mother's day post. Ryan's was the same. Mentioned d-care in relation to me. But one of my fav parts about the card, that actually produced the tears, "You never change." What a beautiful testament to who you are and the mommma you are. What security Jack has in you. So proud you are my friend. So happy Jack has YOU.
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